The club directory
Australia's lifestyle venues, state by state — structured clubs, wine bars with play rooms, house parties and the legendary annual balls. Find the right room for your night.
Australia has an active lifestyle scene with venues in every state and territory, concentrated in Melbourne, Sydney and Brisbane. Venues operate as licensed "sex on premises" venues under local regulation. Here's the lay of the land — and where to read the full local scene.
Victoria — Melbourne
Widely considered Australia's swinging capital, Melbourne has the most varied scene in the country: wine bars, house parties, structured clubs and the iconic annual ball.
| Venue | Type | Area | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| Between Friends Wine Bar | Wine bar + play rooms | Balaclava | Unique concept: a genuine wine bar with play rooms upstairs. Couples-first. |
| Swingers Couples Club | House party | East Melbourne | Over-45 crowd. Couples and single women. No-pressure atmosphere. |
| Coco's | House party | ~20 min from CBD | Running since 2016. Two-level venue, inclusive crowd. |
| Saints and Sinners Ball | Annual event | Melbourne | The most iconic lifestyle event in Australia. |
See the full Melbourne scene →
New South Wales — Sydney
The biggest, most varied club scene in the country — four dedicated venues with genuinely different personalities, plus a steady run of parties and newbie nights.
| Venue | Type | Area | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| Fun4Two | Structured club | Western Sydney | Sydney's most polished. Dance floor, lounges, private rooms, spa. 24/7 security, secure parking. Great newbie nights. |
| Our Secret Spot | Club | Inner West | Speakeasy feel, dungeon, body-positive. Application forms for single men, throuples and non-binary guests. |
| Sin Sity | Club / party organiser | Sydney | One of Sydney's longest-running venues. Themed parties and events. |
Queensland — Brisbane & the Gold Coast
A strong scene of structured, council-approved clubs across South-East Queensland.
| Venue | Type | Area | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| Taboo22 | Structured club | Brisbane (SEQ) | Council approved. Six private rooms plus two open, spa, dungeon, stage, BYO bar. Smart-casual dress code. |
| Mike's Place | Structured club | Brisbane | The only licensed-bar club in Brisbane. Known as the most elegant. |
| Diversionz | Party venue | ~20 min from CBD | Purpose-built adult venue, close to both Brisbane and the Gold Coast. |
| Madisons | Hosted club | SEQ | Run by experienced hosts. Couples, single men and single women. |
| Hunter Liaisons | Meet & greet parties | QLD | Parties for couples and selected singles, aiming for gender balance. |
Western Australia — Perth
A scene concentrated in Perth, anchored by two long-running clubs.
| Venue | Type | Area | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| Infusion Perth | Structured club | Perth | Perth's most popular, running 7+ years. Weekly events in an upmarket venue. Newcomers welcome. |
| Club 103 | Club (house-party vibe) | Minutes from CBD | BYO, kink-friendly, traffic-light safe words. Mixed day and evening sessions. |
South Australia — Adelaide
A smaller but growing scene, led by house parties and private clubs.
| Venue | Type | Area | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| The Rabbit Hole | Party venue | Adelaide | New, purpose-built adult venue. |
| Alura's Adult Parties | Swingers club | Adelaide area | Organised parties. |
| Cuddly Bi Orgy Club | Membership club | Adelaide | Dedicated to bi-curious couples and singles. |
ACT — Canberra
A small but active community, with one clear focal point.
| Venue | Type | Area | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| Kink Zone ACT | Alt-lifestyle club | Canberra | Sex-positive and inclusive. Events for swingers, LGBTQIA+, femme and under-30s. Vetting required. |
Tasmania & the Northern Territory
The scenes in Hobart and Darwin are the smallest in the country. There are few or no fixed clubs — instead, couples run regular private parties, and the community organises mostly online. If you're in either, joining the community is the best way to find what's on.
Venues open, close and change their policies often. Treat this as a starting map, not a live timetable — always check current details before you go.
Before you walk in
New to all this? Read your first time at a club and the etiquette & consent guide first. Want to know where the law stands? See is swinging legal in Australia?
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